A report came out in February 2026 that stopped us mid-scroll. New research on postpartum depression found that, for mothers in the United States, symptoms often don't resolve in weeks or months. The study followed more than 31,000 mothers in the US, the UK, and Australia from their baby's first year into early childhood. On average, US mothers' symptoms barely eased at all over those years.1
Six years. Not six weeks. Not the six month mark where a lot of people quietly expect you to be back to normal.
What the Research Actually Found
We want to be careful here, because we are not therapists or physicians, and this is not a mental health diagnosis or a treatment plan. But we sit across from new mothers every week, and almost all of them arrive carrying some version of the same deadline in their head. Six weeks until the doctor clears you. Three months until your clothes fit. A year until you feel like yourself. Those numbers come from somewhere, usually a checkup schedule or a magazine headline, and they were never built to describe what actually happens in a body and a mind after birth.
What this research does is give language to something we already see constantly. Recovery is not a single curve that ends. It is a long, uneven process that can still be actively unfolding years later, and treating it like a deadline you either hit or fail is where a lot of unnecessary shame gets built.
Why This Changes How We Coach
This matters for how we coach. If a client is still struggling with mood, sleep, motivation, or her relationship to her own body a year or two after birth, that is not a sign she is doing something wrong or that she should have moved on by now. It might just mean she is still in it, and the work is to keep showing up for her body in a way that doesn't demand she perform recovery on someone else's clock.
Practically, that changes a few things about how we program and how we talk. We stop asking how she is feeling compared to before the baby, because that question assumes a fixed prior self to return to. We ask what feels available today, this week, in this body. We build sessions that can flex around a bad sleep night or a hard emotional week without the whole plan collapsing, because rigidity is the enemy of a process that isn't linear.
Where Coaching Ends and Clinical Care Begins
We also hold our scope carefully. Movement can genuinely help with mood, energy, and a sense of agency in your own body, and we've watched it do that. But if what you're carrying looks like the kind of persistent low mood, anxiety, or numbness this research is describing, that calls for a mental health professional, not a workout plan. Part of our job is knowing the difference and saying so plainly, not trying to coach around it.
If you're a year or two or four past birth and still don't feel like the timeline promised you'd feel by now, you're not behind. The timeline was wrong. What you need is support that matches the actual length of the process, not a program built for six weeks. The free postpartum recovery guide is a place to start if you want a longer view of what that timeline can actually look like. Our postpartum support coaching is built for that longer view too.
- "Maternal Depression across Early Childhood: Similarities and Differences across Three Liberal Democracies," Journal of Health and Social Behavior (2025). Read the study ↩